Gala etiquette
A formal party where everyone appears in gala attire. Style, tradition, and etiquette come together here.
A formal party where everyone appears in gala attire: that’s a gala. This type of event is especially popular with student associations. When you attend such a party, there are clear rules you must follow.
Gala etiquette partly consists of unwritten rules. That’s why it’s important to know how things are done, so you don’t make a faux pas.
Galas revolve around etiquette and classic rules.
Black tie or white tie determines your outfit.
Small rules make the difference.
Before the gala
Unlike many other parties, gala etiquette starts before the event. It is customary for the gentleman to ask the lady, unless it is a leap year.
How to ask for a date
You don’t just invite someone on a date. According to etiquette, the gentleman writes a blue letter and receives an answer via a pink letter. Then follows a meeting where the answer becomes clear.
- Only tea → no
- Tea + cookie → as friends
- Tea + cake → maybe
- Cake + whipped cream → yes
Matching colors
The lady lets you know the color of her dress during the date. The gentleman coordinates his corsage accordingly.
The right gala attire
Strict dress codes apply at a gala. The invitation often states whether it is black tie or white tie.
Ladies usually wear a long evening gown with pumps. The dress should fall to the heel.
Corsage etiquette
The corsage is arranged by the inviting party and is worn on the left. The lady wears it upside down.
Choose a classic flower corsage for an authentic look.
Other gala etiquette
- Do not wear a watch
- Let the lady go first (except on stairs)
- Make a slight bow when asking to dance
- Wait a moment before asking another lady