GENTS
Gala etiquette
An elegant celebration where everyone arrives in formal attire. Style, tradition and etiquette come together here.
An elegant celebration where everyone arrives in formal attire: that is, of course, a gala. This type of event is particularly popular among student associations. When you attend such an event, there are clear rules you must follow.
Gala etiquette consists partly of unwritten rules. For this very reason, it is important to know how things should be done, so you don't commit a faux pas.
Galas revolve around etiquette and classical rules.
Black tie or white tie determines your outfit.
Small rules make the difference.
Before the gala
Unlike many other celebrations, gala etiquette begins before the event itself. It is customary for the gentleman to ask the lady, unless it is a leap year.
How to ask for a date
You don't simply invite a date. According to etiquette, the gentleman writes a blue letter and receives a reply via a pink letter. This is followed by a meeting where the answer becomes clear.
- Tea only → no
- Tea + biscuit → as friends
- Tea + pastry → perhaps
- Pastry + whipped cream → yes
Coordinating colours
During the date, the lady lets the gentleman know which colour dress she will wear. The gentleman coordinates his corsage accordingly.
The right gala attire
At a gala, strict dress codes apply. The invitation usually specifies whether it is black tie or white tie.
- Black tie → dinner jacket
- White tie → tailcoat
Ladies typically wear a long formal gown with pumps. The dress should fall to the heel.
Corsage etiquette
The corsage is arranged by the host and is worn on the left. The lady wears it upside down.
Choose a classic flower corsage for an authentic look.
Other gala etiquette
- Do not wear a watch
- Let the lady go first (except on the stairs)
- Make a slight bow when asking for a dance
- Wait a moment before asking another lady to dance
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